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practicality ([personal profile] practicality) wrote2005-08-28 06:55 pm
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Nevermind

Screw feeling abandoned, I now feel replaced. Did I really mean that little to you, that you can just do that? Fuck. I hate my life. And Calc 1, which is unfortunately part of my life.

I have a new copy of Good Omens and some new Fruits Basket, and somehow this doesn't cheer me up at all -.-

[identity profile] momijizukamori.dreamwidth.org 2005-08-30 05:21 pm (UTC)(link)
...Well, if you leave it off until later to decide what you have time to do, you're, uh, not going to have that time any more. You've got eight months, which is a _lot_ of time if you use it wisely.

(Also, I won't press the issue, but...not talking about Mara will not make her or the problem magically go away.)

[identity profile] ext_126390 (from dreamwidth.org) 2005-08-30 05:24 pm (UTC)(link)
What's so unclear about this? Once I know how much time Devil's Trill is going to take me, I'll decide what else to do. I'm going to finish it before I start on anything else.

There is no problem to "magically go away". And why must you be so condescending?

[identity profile] momijizukamori.dreamwidth.org 2005-08-30 05:32 pm (UTC)(link)
...It seems logical to me to work on the costume that's for a con that's eight months away before working on one for a con that's twelve months away, but they're your costumes, not mine.

I don't intend to be - the fact that you blocked and defriended someone who you once considered a friend and then more or less vowed to never speak to again, and now are claiming that you're perfectly fine around isn't in any way anomalous at all?

[identity profile] ext_126390 (from dreamwidth.org) 2005-08-30 05:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, that's correct, they are my costumes.

I talk to and hang out with plenty of people who aren't my friends.

And telling me that something won't "magically go away" is most definitely condescending.

[identity profile] momijizukamori.dreamwidth.org 2005-08-30 05:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, but you have to actually be on good terms with the person for it to work at all. It'd be like me trying to spend a day with Joni or something. It wouldn't work - there would be yelling after twenty minutes.

I think it depends on 1) what you feel is condescending and 2)tone, which doesn't carry well in written conversation. I could see how it could be condescending, if in a tone I didn't intend there. Otherwise, it's just the way I say things.

[identity profile] ext_126390 (from dreamwidth.org) 2005-08-30 05:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay, then, the conclusion is the same: there aren't going to be any cosplay groups with both me and Mara in them.

[identity profile] ext_126390 (from dreamwidth.org) 2005-08-30 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
... That up there was supposed to be a 'not going to finish it before I start on anything else'. I don't think I will, anyway. I'm not sure. Either way, Devil's Trill and possibly King of Swords are my only finalized plan(s).