You can always gouge her eyes out with blackened sticks. Though that may only serve to make here more whiny and passive-aggressive.
As for J, point out every damn thing he does that he sees as feminine, or that anyone sees as feminine. Being social is an androgynous trait, so I suppose you could school him in that, but he may see you as "fixing him" and that's just pointlessfeminine shooting yourself in the foot.
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Date: 2008-04-14 03:40 pm (UTC)From:As for J, point out every damn thing he does that he sees as feminine, or that anyone sees as feminine. Being social is an androgynous trait, so I suppose you could school him in that, but he may see you as "fixing him" and that's just
pointlessfeminineshooting yourself in the foot.