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practicality ([personal profile] practicality) wrote2005-04-13 11:09 pm

What Makes You Feel Loved?

Just a thought I've been pondering...different people have different ways of expressing/recognizing affection. I'm curious as to what fits those standards for other people.

Me, I'm simple, I guess. In no particular order: initiating a conversation with me, finding my stupid little stories interesting, trusting me, little gifts to show you thought of me, remembering things about me and what I like, writing me letters, especially (although a phonecall or e-mail is almost as nice), actually carrying through something you promised to do for me.

And you?

[identity profile] ext_297304 (from dreamwidth.org) 2005-04-14 01:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Similar things, largely. I like knowing that people think of me, especially if it's even when I'm not around, and when someone takes the time to do something like write me a letter it makes me very happy. I like cuddling, but I only like people remembering things about me and what I like to a certain point (*has a number people who probably keep a notebook to record all my favorite things and stories, which doesn't make me feel loved, it makes me worry XD*). And I really like subtle, nonintentional little reminders that I'm loved. And... I like being made fun of XD; .... um.... XD;;;